Rant 6: People Part 2

My past few posts haven’t really followed the same structure that I had when I first started this blog, and my posts have been less frequent than I would have liked, that is why after this post I will not be posting for a while, I won’t delete this blog so people can still read my old posts and stuff, and comment if they so choose, but there will be no new posts for a while until I have sorted a few things out, I’ll include a link to my twitter below if anyone wants to follow me on twitter and message me directly, you don’t have to, but you can if you want. Now that I’ve got the sort of ‘goodbye for now’ out of the way let us move on to another fun rant. So for those of you who have read “Rant 2: People” this is the sequel as such, now this is a specific problem that has been occurring in my life for a while now, and it is really starting to annoy me. All people will make assumptions as some point in their lives, that’s a fact and we are all guilty of that at some point, there is nothing we can do about that. However it annoys me when I post a generic complaint or annoyance on Twitter and people assume it’s indirectly aimed at them, now in a world ruled with common sense I would expect them to do what I myself have down in the past, it only takes a few seconds to send a direct message to someone and say “hey was your tweet aimed at me?” See that’s even under 140 characters, so there is no excuse. But alas this world is not ruled by common sense, so instead of taking two minutes out of their ever so busy social lives (yes feel the sarcasm!) they post an indirect tweet about how they don’t care. So allow me to point a couple of things, if I post an indirect message and you feel it is aimed at you, why do you think this? Is it because your that vain you think you’re always on my mind? Or have you actually done something that’s annoyed me that your aware of that’s led to this assumption? Because lets face it, I’m not always the easiest person in the world to get along with and I accept this, however if you have gone out of your way to annoy me then I need to ask ARE YOU BROKEN? Who goes out of their way to annoy someone? Who actually does this? and I know that some people who I know personally will probably read this and assume “oh he’s bitching about me again” why does your vanity know no bounds? Also if you’re going to post an update about how you don’t care… you clearly do or you wouldn’t have post the “I don’t care message” Now to break away from the theme of this rant, another problem I have with people, if I have taken the time to text you or message you on Facebook, I expect you to reply. But not everyone will, cause let’s face it “ignoring people is so mature” Now this one crops up a lot in my day-to-day life, if I’ve text you anywhere between 07:00 and 07:30 then I have just woke up and you’re the first person I have messaged upon waking up, so I expect you to reply, not a few hours later and be like “oh I’ve just woke up.” You’ve just woke up really? Oh well obviously the internet is broken because your Facebook show’s you logged in 3 hours ago, how are you using the internet while your asleep? Cause this is an amazing skill you have here and you should share you’re secret with the rest of humanity. Or more simply you’re just a liar. Another problem that I have is those people who will take their time to get to know you, and when they know about your past when you finally open up to them, they then proceed to use your past against you, this has happened to me at least 3 times in the past six years, and it’s seriously one of the most annoying things that humanity does. Know this is specific to certain girls that I know, they will talk to me about my past when I’m down, judge my ex’s for what they did to me then proceed to start acting the same as my ex’s leading me to believe that most of the girls I know  are just clones of my ex’s, another kind of similar problem is those girls who start to move close to you, realise what they are doing, back away and then ignore you. WHY DO YOU DO THIS? This is one of the biggest problems I have with people. And also relationships annoy me, probably more than the dentist down the road that’s also a plastic surgeon (this annoys me a lot, my friends find it funny how much it annoys me, plastic surgeon and doctor work well together, but how is getting breast enhancements from the dude who did your root canal?) my problem with relationships is specific to those who seem to break up with someone every few months, complain to me about how terrible their ex was, tell me they will be single for ages and like a month later their with someone else, posting generic relationships updates on social media. So allow me to clarify something for you, nobody cares how “amazing” your boyfriend is, or how your new boyfriend is “perfect and how in love with them you” just like all your ex’s… Do you see the point yet? The first time you do it that’s fine its one of those “aw cute, young love” moments, the second time its “aw, sweet” third time it’s at the point where as a whole everyone else is like ” no, just stop it’s getting too much now” This is not because people are jealous that all your relationships have been ” the best thing ever” and how you have been completely in love with at least 3 different people in the past 4 years. Let me break love down for you, love has absolutely nothing to do with the heart, (buzz kill I know right?) But it doesn’t it’s a chemical reaction in your brain, the same reaction you get from eating chocolate… are you in love with that chocolate bar? No? Wow shocker… but as for the whole notion of the “feeling of love” it works very simply, people assume it’s complicated but it isn’t, love works on the basis of you never have, or you always will. Love is not  a feeling that goes away after a while, it stays with you forever, I can safely say I have had this feeling once in my life time, and at the age of 22, I’m just about down with it, yes I still love one ex, I am not in love with her but I still love her and care about her, but she doesn’t care so… but anyway, when all is see is people going on and on and on about how “in love” they are in their third relationship (that I know of) it starts to really great on my last nerve, seriously just grow up! Okay so that concludes my last post for a while, enjoy your time, have fun, and I’ll post again in the not too distant future Follow me on Twitter